Party Etiquette 101.5
My name is Maggie and I am a
bona fide party girl. I like to throw parties and I like to go to parties. Big
parties, small parties, it doesn’t matter. As far as I’m concerned, there is
always a reason to celebrate something, and this is my version of Party Etiquette
101.5.
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I could write scads on
party-goer etiquette, from which fork to use and how to properly pass the salt
and pepper (I know, who knew there was a proper way to pass salt and pepper?!).
I’ll just stick to the basics and what I find most important, from the instant
you receive that highly-coveted invitation, to the day after the party, when
you are updating your Facebook page with pictures. Show your appreciation and
gratitude towards your fabulous hostess with these three simple tips!
Pre-Party
Always RSVP! This is so
important. Yes, you may be holding out for that important invite to the Queen’s
ball, but I wouldn’t hold my breath. When someone sends you an invite, e-vite, or
Facebook event notice, responde si vous
plait. There’s nothing worse than having unexpected guests. It can get
really awkward when there are not enough chairs, dance partners, or…gasp…food!
Even at an event without place settings, your hostess would like to have
numbers. Don’t leave her wondering if she should book the dance hall or keep it at her home. Let’s keep our good
names and reputations on those guest lists by being courteous and RSVP’ing.
Party Day
Bring a hostess gift of flowers,
a bottle of vino, or a pineapple (the international symbol of
hospitality). It does not have to
be expensive and over the top. It’s
a small token of appreciation that says, “Thank you for inviting me to your
party. I appreciate all of your hard work to make our time here enjoyable.” As
someone who has been on the receiving end of a hostess gift, let me tell ya,
it’s amazing!
After Party
Write a thank you note. Thank
the hostess for her hospitality and inviting you into her home or wherever the
party was held. Keep the positive vibes of the party going. There is nothing
better than getting a personal, hand-written note in the mail, as opposed to another
stinkin’ bill or junk mail. It
takes 2 minutes out of your busy and important day. One act of kindness deserves another and besides, it’s good
for your health. Yes, I read that
somewhere.
So there you have it! Party etiquette 101.5…Now conquer the
world, you classy people, you.
XOXO
Maggie H.
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